Saturday, April 07, 2007

The Age Of Miracles - Its Not Past

My younger sis - Poorni - finally got engaged last month. I say finally, because by traditional Indian standards - at 28, she is considered "late" for marriage. But who is to say what late is - to each his own and I really respect her for the clear headed thinking she had - that she would get married ONLY to a certain kind of guy, and if a guy did not match her standards - too bad for him. THE ONLY reason we in the family where getting a bit jittery was due to the unique combination needed to pass her "qualification criteria". The guy needed to be into trekking (that rules out 95% of all males in India), also needed to be into music (thats another 3% ruled out), also needed to be a software engineer (there goes another 1%) and then ofcourse - needed to be smart, sauve, level-headed, caring .... which perhaps left 0.0001% of the guys in the reckoning. The challenge for us was to find that guy !!!

I am a sucker for miracles - and this for me is nothing short of one. I am still to come to terms with the fact that she did manage to find someone matching every one of these criteria !!!

Got me thinking - that miracles, magic. love - they still happen & will continue to too. Thats perhaps what keeps the world going. In a world where people are perhaps getting increasingly cynical - to look at a young couple just going to get into holy matrimony, is looking at hope in this world. Poorni - I believe - is on the phone to the US with Amar - for hours at a stretch now-a-days. Am so happy for her. Its the hope & belief of two people - who think that their marriage will be the best one yet. That they together will find a world beyond the rainbows - thats full of magic, marigold, fun and warmth. I do hope they find that world.... but along the way, I do hope they also learn that much of that magic is created by them - and that they need to work on it everyday, so that the magic dust never ever settles down.

Reminds me of a beautiful piece of writing that Richard Bach had written.....

We think, sometimes, theres not a dragon left. Not one brave knight, not a single princess gliding through secret forests, enchanting deer and butterflies with her smile.

We think sometimes, that ours is an age past frontiers, past adventures. Destiny, its way over the horizon; glowing shadows galloped past long ago and gone.

What a pleasure to be wrong. Princesses, knights, enchantments and dragons, mystery and adventure....not only are they here and now, they are all that ever lived on the earth !

Our century, they've changed clothes, ofcourse. Dragons wear government costumes today and failure-suits and disaster-outfits. Societys demons screech, whirl down on us, should we lift our eyes from the ground, dare we turn right at corners we've been told to turn left. So crafty have appearances become that princesses and knights can be hidden from each other, can be hidden from themselves.

Yet, masters of reality still meet us in dreams to tell us that we've never lost the shield we need against dragons, that blue-fire voltage arcs through us now to change our world as we wish. Intuition whispers true : We're not dust, we're magic !!

6 comments:

Arti Honrao said...

A very good post ... Straight from the heart.
My best wishes for your sister.



GBU
Arti

Monika said...

Intuition whispers true : We're not dust, we're magic !!

lovely lines.... we are indeed magic

Pooh said...

Hi Anna...

Thank u for this wonderful blog. :-)

Like that dialog in Dil tho Pagal hai goes..

Sab ke liye is duniya mein koi na koi bana rehetha hai..
Its just a matter of time for them to meet one another ;-)

The more i talk to Amar ... the more strongly i feel he is the one made for me..
not just because of the trekking and music part of it but in most wayz!!

I'm not expecting a bed of roses always in life.. I'm ready to face my share of thorns too..
but i beleive i can work it out with him!!

And finally, like it is said..
Life is not what happens to you...
Life is what you make out of it
and I'll do all i can to make it the best for me and him!!

Be it by magic or by miracle.. With godz grace...
just hope and pray my analysis and belief turns out to be true for the rest of my life!!

Luv u loadz..
Pallu :-)

ananda : sanskrit for bliss said...

thanks for the comment. i'll definitely be reading your blog too.

Roon said...

Thanks arti - thanks monika - and pooh - you really are growing up kid. Nice to see strands of maturity seeping into your thinking :-)

Roshan said...

Arun,

Its really nice to know that your younger sis is getting married. I stil remember her from the time i had come to your house for that group vacation of ours in our 3rd year at the REC.

Wish her all the best.

And you Arun, stay in touch once in a while.

With love

Roshan